Friday, October 31, 2008

Happy Halloween!

We gussied up the kids today for Halloween. Since they're going to daycare we decided just to send them with t-shirts. They'll put on their real costumes tonight to hand out candy. Ian is going to wear his UGA track suit and Charlotte is going to wear her UGA cheerleader uniform. I'll be sure to post pictures of that, but to tide you over, here are the kiddos from this morning. Aren't they just the bees knees? We think so too. :)

Ian's t-shirt reads, "Just hand over the candy and no one gets hurt."


On Charlotte's shirt, the black dots are actually black kitty faces. She's also wearing a hair clippy I made with a candy corn on it for the day.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

October Update


Hi kids! Sorry I've been MIA lately. We've had family in town and been busy with kiddos. We recently celebrated our 11 year wedding anniversary and our "family day." Both kids were in exceptionally good moods this past weekend. Ian is finally over his hand/foot/mouth virus and Charlotte is walking more and more.

Our weather has been simply GORGEOUS! We recently took a trip down to Garden of the Gods and the colors were just beautiful. Couldn't have been more lovely. The kids were real troopers that day and both win the "Excellent Kid" award for not going insane for having sat in the car on the way down or on the way home.

For our family day we started with Ian's soccer. It turned out that it was also photo day and that's bound to be hilarious. Someone decided that he couldn't have his picture snapped without his mother, so yeah, I'm in his first soccer photo. Poor kid. His mom is in his very first sporting photo. I do take some comfort in knowing that he wasn't the only one who couldn't do it on his own. I'll post the group photo and you'll see that I'm not the only other mom holding their kid on their lap in the back row while trying to hide. And you thought soccer with a bunch of 18-24 month olds was funny! You should see them try to get a group photo taken!

After soccer we headed to Gunther Toody's for some breakfast. Both of the kids got a balloon from the balloon animal guy. How come there are rarely women who do this? Anyway, they both really liked their balloons. Ian got a monkey and Charlotte got a starter balloon. Here's what they each decided to do with their balloons.

Ian hitting daddy on the head with his balloon. Notice after daddy straightens his hair, Ian must do the same. HA!


Charlotte figuring out her starter balloon. Of course it's in her mouth.

Oh, and because it's funny, here's Charlotte snoring in the car.

Later that evening we had dinner with Nana at Lil Ricci's and everyone had pasta. The next day we had leftovers. It's always better the next day anyway. The kiddos had a blast making a mess of their spaghetti - something we can let them do at home. Of course, it drove daddy insane that a mess was being made, but he survived.

Sunday we took Ian for a play date with his bio sister "M" and her family. Charlotte stayed back with Nana and they got some play time in at home without fear of her being trampled by the walking (more like running) kiddos.

Here's Ian & daddy going down the slide together. It ends abruptly because Ian needed a hug to celebrate his amazing sliding abilities.



We had a wonderful weekend! Looking forward to having family again the 2nd week of November and that will be fun. We're also working on Charlotte's birthday party for the 30th. We can hardly believe our little pipsqueak is almost a year old!!!

Sending only good wishes,

Laura

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

We subscribe to a newsletter by the New Demographic called "Non Racist Parenting" to help us address racial issues as a family. Given our family's racial makeup we wanted to be sure that we got this one right.

Recently, the New Demographic issued the following article and it resonated with us. We thought we'd share it here for your consideration.

An open letter to white voters, or what McCain really thinks of you
by Carmen Van Kerckhove

Dear white voter,

Sorry, was that too direct? Sarah Palin loves calling you "Joe Six Pack" and "hockey mom." Perhaps I too, should use one of 68 possible euphemisms to refer to you instead.

I want to ask you a simple question: Which candidate -- McCain or Obama -- do you think has a higher opinion of your character?

John McCain has spent the last couple of weeks asking ominously: "Who is the real Barack Obama?"

Sarah Palin hasn't hesitated to supply an answer to this question. She declared at a Florida rally on Monday that Barack Obama "is not a man who sees America the way you and I see America. I'm afraid this is someone who sees America as imperfect enough to work with a former domestic terrorist who had targeted his own country."

And as CNN's Campbell Brown pointed out in her commentary Wednesday night, McCain surrogates have made a point of calling the Democratic candidate "Barack Hussein Obama" at least twice this week.

The McCain campaign is doing its best to paint Obama as a shadowy Manchurian candidate who is un-American, unpatriotic, dangerous, sympathetic to terrorists, and possibly even a secret Muslim (needless to say, that's a bad thing in their eyes).

That much is obvious.

But what does their strategy say about what they think of you, the white voter?
Judging from their messaging, they seem to be stereotyping white voters as closed-minded, paranoid, naive, xenophobic, and just a tad bit racist.

And they are certainly connecting successfully with people who match this profile.
At a New Mexico rally on Monday, McCain asked the crowd, "Who is the real Barack Obama?" A voice in the crowd yelled out, "A terrorist!"

When Palin delivered her stump speech berating Obama at the Florida rally on the same day, an audience member yelled, "Kill him!" Audience members then began shouting angrily at the reporters covering the event, one of them yelling racial slurs at an African-American camera man and telling him to "Sit down, boy."

Do you bear any resemblance to these agitators? Probably not.

Do you fit the profile of the racist and xenophobic white voter? Probably not.

Then do you really want to support a candidate who thinks so little of you that his only strategy right now is to appeal to your basest human instincts of fear and hatred?

Contrast McCain's view of you to that of Obama's.

Despite the harsh realities of racism in America -- his being placed under Secret Service protection earlier than any other presidential candidate in history, for example -- Obama has never expressed anything but unfailing faith in you.

His February 2007 appearance on 60 Minutes was just one of countless interviews in which he made that clear:

KROFT: You think the country's ready for a black President?
OBAMA: Yes.
KROFT: You don't think it's going to hold you back?
OBAMA: No. I think if I don't win this race, it will be because of other factors. It's going to be because I have not shown to the American people a vision for where the country needs to go that they can embrace.

In his speech on race this spring, Obama declared: "I would not be running for president if I didn't believe with all my heart that this is what the vast majority of Americans want for this country."

Dear white voter, it's time for a decision.

This November, will you support the candidate who assumes the worst about your character and motivations?

Or will you vote for the candidate who has never stopped believing in and championing your capacity for greatness?